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Desire, alone time, and that thin line between being close to somebody and slowly losing yourself in them.
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Grown folks.
Real talk.
No filter.
We’re saying the quiet part out loud—and leaving shame at the damn door.
Lady Lotus holds the mic. The trailer and the pilot episode are live on Spotify. Start with No Doesn't Need a Whole-Ass Essay.
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Not small talk
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The pilot is live on Spotify now. Two more conversations are on the way.
Now live on Spotify · Episode 2 · 10 min 24 sec
Have you ever typed out a whole paragraph just to tell somebody no? Explaining yourself, apologizing, throwing in a compliment, maybe even making up an excuse, all because you don't want somebody feeling some type of way. This is the one about why we soften every no, and how to stop making ourselves uncomfortable just to keep everybody else comfortable. This week's dare: say no to one thing. No long explanation. No made up excuse. No apologizing five times. Just no. And when the uncomfortable silence shows up afterward, let it sit right there.
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Wanting more, making the bold move, and starting before confidence—or anybody else’s permission—shows up.
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